... I draw on the work of Piaget (1968) in identifying conflict as the harbinger of growth and also on the work of Erikson (1964) who, in charting development through crisis, demonstrates how a heightened vulnerability signals the emergence of a potential strength, creating a dangerous opportunity for growth, "a turning point for better or worse" (p. 139). Carol Gilligan
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Regarding the first quote, conflict is the precursor to growth. The more conflict that occurs within an individual or family, the more growth will occur. For example, if a person becomes involved in a conflict with another person, all of the emotional energy that was pent up during this conflict will be released. If the individual is strong enough, this release of emotion will be channeled into positive action. Regarding the second quote, young children do not usually have conflicts with other people.

They are not mature enough to understand the consequences of their actions and because of this they are not able to channel their emotions into positive actions. However, as children grow older they tend to encounter more conflicts with other people. These conflicts act as a catalyst for growth because they reveal that there are many weaknesses within their character that can be developed through hard work and determination.

Source: In A Different Voice: Psychological Theory And Womens Development

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